Don`T Change Your Husband Full Movie Part 1' title='Don`T Change Your Husband Full Movie Part 1' />Nkem Ndem Your Boyfriend Is NOT Your Husband. I am a huge Game of Thrones Go. T fan, and after seeing An hour of Ice and Fire last weeks episode where Khaleesi dealt with the sex crazed and potty mouthed khans by setting the Dothraki hut ablaze, I was filled with so much excitement that I decided to call a friend, Tiwato share my speculations for the next episode. As Tiwa picked up the phone and we started talking, I noticed that her responses were curt and her tone flat. I had to end all the Go. T talk and ask her what was wrong. She surprisingly broke into tears and started to narrate the story of how her boyfriend had embarrassed her earlier in the day, in front of their friend. Out of the last five times youve made love, how many have you initiated, and how many has your husband initiated If you say hes initiated all 5, that could be. Peter Vaughan, Actor Brazil. A true character actor in the best sense of the word, offbeat British thespian Peter Vaughans hefty frame could appear intimidating or. According to Tiwa, she had gone to over to his place early in the morning to drop off the packs of food she had made for him to put in his freezer. Although she had called him before setting out and still called his phone when she got to his apartment, he had left her standing at the entrance knocking for almost 1. It wasnt all. After she put the bowls of food in the freezer, she headed to his room to give him a kiss before leaving as any loving girlfriend would do. On getting to his room, however, one of his friends also a friend of hers who had spent the weekend with him and was in the room with him, mentioned to the boyfriend that he needed to give Tiwa a key to the apartment. Don`T Change Your Husband Full Movie Part 1' title='Don`T Change Your Husband Full Movie Part 1' />Before she could say a word in protest, her boyfriend of 3 solid years had already replied For what now When she is not my wifeOf course, I couldnt do much but just listen and sympathize with her. Grammar Bytes Grammar Instruction with Attitude. Includes detailed terms, interactive exercises, handouts, and moreShe had not asked for my advice and actually, I could see that she was finally at the place where she could see that her boyfriend was not in love with her. He was only stringing her along until the marriage benefits she was giving him runs out or until he finds the benefits elsewhere. Tiwa met him at the point in her life when she was going through the i want to get married phase and was a little desperate. In the bid to show him that she wife material and secure him for marriage, she started to give him the benefits of marriage round the clock sex, home cooked meals, cleaning his house, etc. Of course, we Tiwa and I had had fights over it all I constantly told her that playing wife was not only inappropriate, it would take away the incentive for him to take the next step and marry her, but she wouldnt listen. Think about it, why marry the woman when you can get the wife for free In my opinion, there is a very big difference between a boyfriend and a husband many of which circle around devotion, commitment, and understanding. The two are not interchangeable at all. If they were the same, what would be there to look forward to in marriage Do not get me wrong, there is nothing wrong with loving your boyfriend and giving him a measure of devoutness. Actually, the caring for him part is what makes the relationship fun for the woman as caregiving comes naturally to her. The problem comes when you give him all the benefits of having a wife with none of the commitment. In fact, the root of some many problems in dating stem from the fact that most girls go above and beyond the call of duty of a girlfriend. Watch Live Free Or Die Hard Hindi Full Movie. Doing for your boyfriends, what a wife does for her husband, is not okay. If a man wants all of you and wants you to do more than a girlfriend does for her boyfriend, then he needs to put a ring on it. Until there is a ring on your finger, you should never treat him as though he is your husband. Treating a man as though he is already a husband, with the intent of getting him to marry you, often backfires. Usually, he instead takes you for granted or walks all over you. Likeeven if you go to his mother and learn how to make their village meals or you decide to not just indulge all his sexual desires but also hang your ovaries on his wall so he will know you can do anything for him, you will be disappointed to learn how easily and quickly he can leave the relationship without batting an eye. Slow down, leave a little mystery, close your legs and set physical boundaries, have your own life, go after your dreams Do not behave as though you cannot exist without a man. Let the courtship happen naturally, and you will be alright. Biko, I am not setting rules for anyone on how involved they can be at each stage of their relationship. Key thing to remember though Do not force a more committed element in your relationship by playing wife. If he does not want to play husband, you definitely should not play wife. And if I might addno double standards either. Lower your expectations. Do not expect him to take up husband duties before marriage taking care of you physically, emotionally and most of all, financially, just as though he were your husband. You have your father, brother and uncles for those. The expectation of wanting a man to prove himself worthy of becoming a husband will even keep you from getting to know him for who he really is, as you only get to see what he can do for you, without enjoying his essence. Again, if he starts to feel like you depend on him for everything, he may start to take you for granted as well. It works both ways reallyor what do you think Have you ever fallen into the temptation of playing wife in order to get the ring How did it turn out Please, lets talk about it all in the comment section. About Nkem Ndem. Nkem Ndem is a dynamic freelance writer and editor who can be reached for online writingweb content and blog and editing, screenwriting, ghost writing, copy proofreading and reviews. She has since worked with Jumia, Spice. TV Africa, and Bella Naija. Drawing Restraint 9 Full Movie. Check out her Instagram kemdem, twitter ndemv and snapchat ndemv. Email nkemndemvgmail.